Relax: The Big O Is Very Close At Hand!

There is absolutely zilch wrong with these women in the physical sense as not experiencing the big O simply means that they just haven't learned how. It's not just physical know-how but also an emotional one. It was definitely frowned upon to masturbate by religious institutions that had a huge impact on everything. Sexuality was a serious taboo subject that was never discussed.

All that most young people knew was that touching yourself was evil and of the devil, and sex was reserved for marriage. Even sex was a male rite of passage that women simply had to endure. As far as the possibility of any pleasure in sex? What's that? Then women discovered that things actually could feel rather nice down there! What a realization!

No wonder so many women have had trouble with the big whammy elusive O! Men generally didn't experience the same pressures regarding sex as women did, because they were generally encouraged to sew their wild oats. Talk about hypocrisy! It's quite alright for him but she's unclean if she even thinks about sex. Then came the era of free love and the sexual revolution that changed the face of sexuality or ever.

Basically the crux of the problem surrounding reaching orgasm is that those women that can't get there spend too much time worrying about the fact that they haven't reached orgasm. Talk about a complicated paradigm! She tries too hard to get there; then cannot let go and so tries even harder and the cycle just continues. It's like trying to call someone on the phone and the line is engaged and rather than finding something else to do you just keep calling to receive the engaged signal over and over again. The result is frustration and tension. Orgasms happen rather the same way! Relax and think about something else. For example if your partner is rubbing your back and that feels really good, just enjoy that. And then women finally discovered sex toys!

Need a little help to get you in the mood? Here are some titillating sex toys that are waiting to bestow a whole lot of thrills, a little extra sizzle and a good strong dose of pleasure in to the orgasmic meter. So just high do they measure on the orgasm meter? Very high, hot and explosive!

- The Rabbit Habit and Rabbit Pearl: Guaranteed to both work their magic on your clitoris and Grafenberg spot, and ladies it's the one made famous by a sex and the city episode. Way to go!

- Rock Chick: Delivers strong vibrations due to its unique design will become one of your favorites!

- Silver Bullet: This portable vibrator is magical and mighty against your clitoris and will have you climaxing more than once!

- Personal Lube: Just what you need for a little extra slip and slide!

- Finger Fun: Try one of these little fingertip vibrators to lend yourself a helping hand; or why not make it one for each finger! Finger licking good!

- Terra Firma: Surprise your man with a delightful strap-on harness so you're all ready for some action!

- Ultraskin: Last but not least, this is close to the real thing with its life-like texture and shape as far as dildos go.

If you are still having trouble achieving an orgasm try setting the mood next time by taking a relaxing luxurious bath so that you can unwind and loosen up. Don't put pressure on yourself. Instead just enjoy whatever happens; as there's always next time.