Five Tips on How to Please Women in Bed
Sexual satisfaction in women may differ largely from men. Sex and romance in a man's point of view may differ largely in a woman's viewpoint. Even in some marriages that have been tested through time, it is inevitable to have sexual incompatibilities and some preferences that may never be addressed, and worst, the lovemaking act may become just another chore.
In some cases, men tend to point a finger on sexual differences as reasons for their infidelity. I don't think there can ever be a valid reason for infidelity, but before you can react to that, women too have issues when it comes to sexual satisfaction, so if you want to know how to please women in bed, read on.
Most often, when it comes to sexual preferences and gratification, women seem to think more of gratifying their partners than thinking about themselves. Especially if there is an increasing responsibility at home, like the children, the finances, career, and getting pregnant again, a woman's mind may play some tricks on her and may not enjoy the lovemaking act.
Moreover, women tend to be more secretive when it comes to what she wants when it comes to lovemaking and how she wants to be satisfied. So you won't end up guessing, here are five ways on how to please women in bed.
1. Ask what she wants. Different women have different sexual preferences, just like men, but women tend not to say it unless she is asked. If it turns you on to see your woman reach that genuine orgasm and not just fake it, go ahead and ask what she wants (though it doesn't have to be a robotic act). In the end, it will eliminate your frustration in not being able satisfy your woman.
2. Foreplay. The longer you can delay ejaculation, the happier your woman would be. Generally, women's sexual desire builds up slower and lasts longer, so the challenge is to make the act last long until she is getting there. In the end, there is nothing more enjoyable and satisfying for both of you than reaching the peak of pleasure together.
3. Talk to her about what you want. If you have been watching porn movies, please do not think that you are looking at some ways-to-improve-your-sex-life tutorial. Lovemaking is different from porn and talk to her about what you want her to do. An amazing sex life comes from things that you both enjoy doing.
4. Know where to touch her. A woman's sexual pleasures are not just derived from intercourse itself. If you want to learn how to please women in bed, study a woman's body and know the pleasure spots. It is important that you know where to touch her. Women are not turned on immediately when they see you naked in front of them. It takes a man's touch, an embrace and some intimate whispers before she would actually want to do the act.
5. Just because you are done with what you want, you can just roll over and sleep. Women want to feel special even after the act. A little appreciation of what she has done that you liked best, a warm embrace or a kiss before finally going to sleep would definitely put her to a good night sleep.
If you know how to please women in bed, there are good chances that they too are willing to reciprocate the pleasure, and that is one good way to a great lovemaking.
"Five Tips on How to Please Women in Bed", was submitted 06/17/2009 under category Sexuality.
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