A Golden Technique to Make Her Horny
Getting more sex from a woman comes down to making her feel hornier. Women are not turned on the same way as men are and sex is a completely different experience to them... so how can we make this the best experience that they have ever had?
You start by setting up the stage first and foremost. Look at the lightening in the room, do you use dimmers on the lights? The last thing you want is to have bright lights everywhere. You can use candles to create the mood, and especially scented candles that will have an effect on her smell and can act as an aphrodisiac.
A key way to make your woman more horny is to turn off any distractions around the house. Women have a lot of things going on in their mind. So it is your job to turn off any distractions that she may have and bring her into the moment and with you. Definitely no phone calls, television, or anything else that can make her drift away and lose focus on you.. If you have a clock that is making a sound in the bedroom, remove it. A clock tends to remind a woman that she has things to do, or that she has to be home because she needs to get up early for work. This is not going to help you.
Next, put on her favourite music to play (obviously turn off any other external sounds such as TV's, washing machine etc).
Make sure the room is warm as women tend to get a lot colder than men and more easily, and you don't want her to feel like she has to keep her clothes on because its cold. If you have a fire place, then that's a big bonus.
Pour her a drink that she really likes and enjoys, maybe some champagne.
Another thing you can do is to offer to give her a small back massage, perhaps you can take her hands and rub them (women love this. Try using just the tips of your fingers over her skin.. long, gentle caresses.)
This may all sound like going over the top, but it truly says a lot to the woman you are with. Remember, you are creating an experience for her.
You should also engage her mind in something stimulating.. you could play a really cool game with her.. Blind fold her and tell her you will play a game where you will feed her different foods and she has to guess what they are.. This is GOLD. You are hitting on so many senses when you play this.. mystery, intrigue, smell, sound, taste.. try it! Foods like strawberry, chocolate, syrups, exotic fruits. Try taking a feather and brushing it on her skin to see how she feels.. stimulate ALL her sense not just her body, and see what happens.
Foreplay is another great tool to get your woman more horny, but remember that this has to be started early for it to have maximum effect, way before you plan to meet her.
A key part of making women horny and receptive to you so she can let go and relax is that you should pay her a lot of compliments on her body whilst you are getting undressed and especially when she is completely naked in front of you. A lot of women feel self conscious regarding their body and how they look (many men forget this), and they will seek from you reassurance that you find them sexy, even if they know that you do.
They want to know that you are attracted to them they want to know that they turn you on. This in turn will serve to increase her attraction for you and make her even more horny! Women want to know that they turn their man on and that their man really wants them.
So this will include saying things to her like 'I love every part of your body' (as you are gently kissing her all over), or 'I love to kiss you all over', or 'you are the sexiest women in the world for me'.. These kinds of phrases really work.
And if you want to know how to go about getting her comfortable taking her clothes off in the first place, you tell her that you would love to take some photos of her sexy body (with the clothes on to begin with), that she would look so beautiful in them...and then gradually take each item off as she gets more and more comfortable. You could show her the photos as you are taking them.
So go out there and try what I have suggested, and I am sure you will be more than surprised on the outcome.
"A Golden Technique to Make Her Horny", was submitted 02/18/2012 under category Dating.